Is your boredom ruining your life?

 

The seduct!ve ways you g!rls pose on camera is why the lot of men are finding it difficult to take you ser!ously.

What meaning is a man supposed to make from a photo of you facing backwards or sideways to d!splay bum and curve?

Or twerk!ng on camera. Wearing night shorts or sk!n tights that shows your Vag!na prints.

Some of you post cleavages and other cropped body parts, while others apply wet l!p gloss and zoom it up close.

I know you g!rls will blame it on boredom but seduction is seduct!on and the effect is the same whether it is inspired by boredom or not.

I mean, social media is so crazy these days, You can’t go a day without bumping into a seduct!ve photo from another random g!rl.

The primary impulse of any man coming accross such a photo is sexual. Even that man is not sexual, he thinks it.

Thoughts are what transition into actions and trust me, the only thing such photographs can inspire is sexual thoughts.

Some men are disciplined enough to resist the urge but even them will not see any reasonable future with you.

The lot of men are not that disciplined so the first instinct to kick in is usually sexu@l and actions will follow.

Most men are not b@d people, they are just humans reacting to human errors.

So when they bump into such photos, they assume that any g!rl who routinely posts sexu@lly motivated photos cannot possibly be ready for anything ser!ous.

Your social media posts has the power to automatically transition people’s intentions from moral to sexu@l.

Your social media is your reality and everyone who views your status lives in and conforms to the rules of the reality you have created.

When you objectify your body and post sexual contents on social media, it automatically becomes your reality, 

Your reality is You.

So you can blame it on boredom and cruise but the truth is that, cruise is stronger than you because you are already add!cted to it.

Men look at you or view your profile one moment and conclude the only thing to be gained from you is sexu@l.

Most times even men who normally have good intentions end up feeling sexu@l because it is the first thing they see.

While it's difficult to generalize what attracts all men, there are certain qualities and characteristics that many men may find appealing. Here are some factors that are often considered attractive:

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE :

Men, like women, can be attracted to physical beauty. This can include factors such as facial features, body shape, style, and grooming.

CONFIDENCE :

Confidence is attractive to both men and women. Being self-assured and comfortable in one's own skin can make a person more appealing.

SENSE OF HUMOR :

A good sense of humor is often considered attractive. The ability to make someone laugh and enjoy their company can create a strong connection.

INTELLIGENCE :

Many men are attracted to women who are intelligent and can engage in meaningful conversations. Stimulating intellectual exchanges can be an attractive quality .

KINDNESS AND COMPASSION :

Men often appreciate women who show kindness, empathy, and compassion towards others. These qualities can indicate a caring and nurturing nature.

SHARED INTERESTS AND VALUES :

Shared hobbies, interests, and values can create a sense of connection and compatibility, which can be attractive to men.

INDEPENDENCE :

Men may be attracted to women who are independent and have their own goals and passions. Independence can be seen as an attractive quality that adds depth to a person's character.

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE :

Being emotionally aware and able to communicate effectively can be attractive to men. This includes the ability to express and understand emotions and maintain healthy relationships.

It's important to note that everyone has their own preferences and what attracts one person may not necessarily attract another. Additionally, attraction is not solely based on external factors, but also on emotional and personal connections.

So the truth is, You keep meeting fake and temporal men because those are the kind of men your l!festyle attracts.

Even when you meet a real man, he doesn’t want to stay long because you have reduced yourself to a sexu@l mascot.

I see all these photos on social media and the first thought that pops in my head is sexu@l, this is the same thought popping in every guy’s head.

Not that he wants to get you !n bed, it is just an adrenaline that kicks in and even though he doesn’t want it, He thinks it.

The truth is, no serious minded person will take you seriously enough to invest if all you have sexu@l social media content, 

Men will not, unless they want se(x). Women will not, unless they do same, and organizations will not, unless they are a porn s!te.

You really need to grow up and fix up because your social media contents shows you l@ck this five things.

1- Integr!ty for your body.

2- Home tra!ning/respect for fam!ly name.

3- Father f!gure and Positive mascul!nity.

4- A healthy relationship and a real MAN. 

5- A job or business that keeps you engaged.

So please, You cannot keep @ccus!ng men of only wanting se(x) when seduct!on is the only thing you promote. 

It’s tiring and the whole sexu@l thing is becoming a sore sight. 😴